My skin is anything but normal. I used to get acne when I was young. Oddly enough, it was suggested by a dermatologist at the time to clean my face only once a day but to do it with straight rubbing alcohol (oh...the horror!) then apply an oatmeal lotion.
Well, my acne went away, and I still do the same thing if I feel a zit starting. Otherwise, I don't use *anything* on my face except water and a washcloth. If my skin gets dry, I apply a light moisturizer.
I think that people try to over process themselves, sometimes soap just isn't needed.
LW, have you tried Epsom salt compacts to draw out the boil? I read a lot of "natural" remedy pages, and I did notice that Epsom salt compacts and soaks were the #1 recommendation. Epsom salt is also very good as a soak for RA since it has a sedative effect on nerves. (Epsom salt is magnesium, which a more refined version is used in IV's to prevent seizures..I'm not sure why I felt like sharing that, but there it is...). And, if you ever get a little constipated, you can also use it as a laxative *shudders*, not that I have any idea why one would want to do that. Oh....and it's cheap.