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The unmentionables
Published on February 3, 2009 By Tova7 In Blogging

I browse.

I can spend hours in a book store if provided a comfortable place to sit.  When the days are cold, and life just needs a little break, I like to play Tova's Bookstore Game.  It's free and really gets the mental juices flowing.

I open five books at random, from different sections in the store, and read a page or two.  Roughly 10-12 pages total.

Then I try and make a story out of it in my mind.  The only rules are:  I can't use those 5 categories the next time and actual information from the pages must be used.

It sounds easy until you hit technical fields like Accounting, or Computer Coding, or whatever.  I try to use every single thing I grasp from reading a page or two.  So for example, I can't pick up a biography of Elvis and then make him into an accountant because the next book is about accounting.  I have to use some of the actual information on the page.

Don't worry, I'm not going to post one of those rather bizarre creations.  Yet.  heh.

No, the point, (finally) of this article is a book I discovered while story surfing at the local B&N.

I started my game just like always.  I picked up a book covered in a brown paper sack.  That was promising, I always like a little spice in my stories.  In my experience, magazines that come with bag type covers usually have spice to spare.  So how fortunate to begin the game with something, well HOT.

I opened it, and by the first page, game over.  I couldn't put it down.  I sat and read the entire thing.

The premise of the book is simple.  Write your inner most secret on a post card and send it to the author, Frank Warren.  Frank believes people are more apt to be truthful in anonymity than in real person.

So I sat and read the inner most secrets of hundreds.  Some made me mad, some made me so sad my heart broke, some scared me, and some brought laughter to my lips.  Sometimes it wasn't the words, but the actual card which illuminated the secret.

The book is not new, so I'm late to the party.  But, damn.  What an idea.

Sitting there in that bookstore, smelling Starbucks and pastries, I felt connected to the human condition more than ever before.  It was like a stranger leaned over and whispered their single most best kept secret in the middle of a crowd.

And occasionally.....that secret is my own.

This book clarifys better than any other, with its short terse senteneces and often colorful postcards......The human condition both exalts, and afflicts us all.

 

 


Comments
on Feb 03, 2009

on Feb 03, 2009

on Feb 03, 2009

The premise of the book is simple. Write your inner most secret on a post card and send it to the author, Frank Warren. Frank believes people are more apt to be truthful in anonymity than in real person.

I think so, too.

So are you going to write your inner most secret here? I don't think I would. Even though people don't really know me here they know me better than some.

Maybe I need to send it to Frank.

on Feb 03, 2009

Maybe I need to send it to Frank.

Maybe. 

So are you going to write your inner most secret here?

Um, noooooo.

JU is hardly anonymous. 

 

on Feb 03, 2009

I think there's a website of a similar nature, maybe even set up and run by the same guy.

I think you're right....but the book is really much better...its like having those postcards in your hand.

on Feb 03, 2009

I like the way you penned this Tonya. Reading it was beautiful.

on Feb 03, 2009

I like the way you penned this Tonya. Reading it was beautiful.

  Wow, thanks Roy.  That's high praise coming from you.  I didn't even edit this one...just wrote it in about 2 minutes flat.

Maybe I'm over editing my other stuff...cutting the heart out of it...hmmmm.

on Feb 03, 2009

I recently bought one of these books. It's called A Lifetime of Secrets. I went to the website, via Boudica's recommendations and it was talking about the books. I love it.

It is amazing how we all have our troubles and joys.

on Feb 04, 2009

I have a secret. One I've never told ANYONE, ever.

Maybe I'll make a postcard.

Maybe you should.  Sometimes just letting it out, letting it go makes it less powerful.  And sometimes YOUR secret gives humility, knowledge and yes even relief to someone sharing it.

It is amazing how we all have our troubles and joys.

It is simultaneously relieving and horrifying the things we share.

 

on Feb 12, 2009

I'm going to have to see if I can find the website.  The teasers you've posted have only whet my appetitie.

There are a few different types of places where I like getting lost: bookshops, music shops, art galleries.  But I think bookshops are probably my favourite.

on Feb 12, 2009

Here is one Maso...enjoy!

http://www.postsecretcommunity.com/