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Published on November 8, 2007 By Tova7 In Blogging

My oldest made honor roll at school this quarter.  We found out before the report card came home.  I was so excited for him until I saw the report card.  It seems in middle school (or at least this middle school) all A’s and B’s earns a spot on the honor roll.   It is not based on GPA.  Kinda takes the “Wow” out of those bumper stickers that shout to the world “My child is an honor student at….”

My husband took a new position which means he is home more.  Adjusting to him being around all the time is almost as hard as when he is gone.  Heh.  We are hoping to retire from the military in about 4 years, depending upon the economy, job market, etc.  At least that is the plan right now.  My husband loves the military, even when he hates it.  If he didn't have a family to consider, he would happily serve 30 years. 

My Uncle Mike is in the hospital with a staph infection in his urinary tract.  When he retired from work, he just sat down.  Sat down and never got up.  His health went downhill from there.  He is my Aunt Shelby’s husband, (the aunt with lung cancer).  His diabetes is out of control and he only has 30% kidney function.  His bladder is “dead” so he lives with a catheter.  I think that is where the infection originated, with the catheter.  Makes me think about Bakerstreet.  I hope he is feeling well.  I miss him.

My uncle went into the hospital last Wednesday and the doctor has no idea when he will get out.  He can’t walk, or even move from his bed to a wheel chair.  I think he is determined to die before the cancer eats out Aunt Shelby’s lungs and he is left to fend for himself.

Since my husband will be home more I was thinking about taking belly dancing lessons at the local gym.  I am still thinking about it.  None of the belly dancers I see are thin.  They all seem to have serious bellies.  Makes me wonder if belly dancing promotes pushing stomach muscles out and not in.  If so, no way Jose'!  Heh.

I like to think of life, earth, and the human race, like a giant tapestry.  We each are our own little thread woven into the bigger picture.  Usually we are so busy focusing on our own little strand or the ones around us, we miss the beauty of the weave.

Occasionally, I hear or read something which makes me take notice of the tapestry.  It’s nothing mind blowing, usually just a series of coincidences.  For instance, has anyone noticed how many Peterson’s are in the news?  Lacy Peterson, murdered by husband….Stacy Peterson missing presumed dead…..Kelsey Peterson runs off with 13 year old student to Mexico.  Names mean a lot to me so when I see one repeated over and over it gets my attention.  I don’t know how it plays into the tapestry.  But, I couldn’t let it pass without noting.

I’m not feeling well.  My thyroid medication is being adjusted AGAIN.  It’s all I can do to keep my house in order, laundry done, kids activities, meal prep, and make it to the gym.  After supper I am pooped.  And being "pooped" isn't part of who I am.  Being shitty, sometimes maybe, but not pooped.

We are having a party for my oldest son’s birthday this weekend.  Miles to go before I rest….better get on it.


Comments
on Nov 08, 2007

~It's sad that they are so busy trying to increase the kids' self esteem that they forget that it only works when the kids know they earned it... because they know when they didn't no matter what the adults say.

~Always remember, it takes just as much to adjust to him being home as it does to adjust to him being away.  The part people forget is, you get to do the adjusting to him being home together.  Too many couples try to make the adjustment as if the other person isn't there.  DON'T!  The best way for him to get back into the swing of being home is for him to have chores that are his responsibility while he's there.

~I'm glad my name isn't Peterson. ;~D

 

Thanks for the little update on your life.

on Nov 08, 2007

The best way for him to get back into the swing of being home is for him to have chores that are his responsibility while he's there.

He has plenty of those.  In fact I think he feels overwhelmed by them occasionally.  I tell him I did it alone for so long I forgot how MUCH there was to do.  Why is it sharing makes it seem like MORE work instead of less?

Always remember, it takes just as much to adjust to him being home as it does to adjust to him being away.

Amen to that.  I spent the last 21 years adjusting to him being away.  Now he's all up in my space.  hahahahaha.

because they know when they didn't no matter what the adults say.

This is so true.  Hunter even asked why he was on honor roll with 2 A's and 4 B's.  Of course he was glad to be there, if for no other reason than to be able to say "Mom you don't have to keep pestering me about homework.  I made the honor roll.  They obviously think I am doing it well."

on Nov 08, 2007
What's wrong with having honor roll for all A's and B's? That's what it was in my high school, with high honors being all A's. As long as the accomplishment is defined as such, it's fine, I think.
on Nov 08, 2007

Congrats on the oldest making the honor roll,  it's still good   

Sorry about your Uncle Mike,  I think your spot on about his giving up...that's really sad what's happening there.

How many milligrams of med do you take now for your thyroid?  Do you feel warm shortly after you take it? 

on Nov 08, 2007

Back in my day, they had 2 honor rolls.  One was at least a 3.0, and the other was for 3.5 and above.  of course this was in the day when 4.0 was perfect (not 4.something due to honors classes).

I guess it depends on the school system where they start.

on Nov 08, 2007
A's and B's are too something special. Still, be proud of him! It could be a whole lot worse you know.

Adjusting to him being around all the time is almost as hard as when he is gone.


I know the feeling! After 13 years of working weekends and then finally moving to working M-F, there were a lot of adjustments to make! Weird...

We each are our own little thread woven into the bigger picture. Usually we are so busy focusing on our own little strand or the ones around us, we miss the beauty of the weave.


So true. Sometimes I feel like a fish in an itty bitty bowl. Heh, maybe that's why I blog.




on Nov 08, 2007

How many milligrams of med do you take now for your thyroid? Do you feel warm shortly after you take it?

I take 75 mg of Synthroid.  I take it at night right before bed (no eating for a couple hours before that).  I read an article some time ago that it is better to take it at night because the way the body processes it.  I just keep it by my floss.  I tried to get Armour instead of Synthroid, but these military doctors are so backward, they don't want to use anything natural (dessicated pig thyroid) because its "old" and natural.  Armour is 100% better because it has all 5 hormones a healthy thyroid produces....while synthroid has one..and you just suffer without the other 4 for the rest of your life......Oh and no I don't get hot after taking it....I go to bed.  heh

What's wrong with having honor roll for all A's and B's? That's what it was in my high school, with high honors being all A's. As long as the accomplishment is defined as such, it's fine, I think.

I think it should be 3.5 and above.  But that's because I graduated with honors from college and made the "Deans list" every quarter, so I expect honor roll to mean something other than "above average."

 

on Nov 08, 2007

So true. Sometimes I feel like a fish in an itty bitty bowl. Heh, maybe that's why I blog.

That's how I am feeling lately.  Puny.

I guess it depends on the school system where they start.

Yeah they should just do it standard all the way through imo.  Then kids get a real sense of where they stand in the world.

Still, be proud of him! It could be a whole lot worse you know.

I am proud of him.  But his grades still don't reflect his intellect.  He hates school and its like pulling teeth to get him to finish homework.  I know those grades would be lower if dad wasn't here kicking his butt about it.

 

 

on Nov 08, 2007
Congrats on your sons grade either way.

It really is true that you get used to the schedules of your spouses. It wreaks a bit of havok when it alters. It's a good thing, but most people ( well, me) are creatures of habit.

It's funny, because you always see the wife of a newly retired man so grumpy. Haha..

I always love your updates and you said a naughty word too! LOL
Being shitty, sometimes maybe, but not pooped.

I always pick up on the bathroom humor. hehe
on Nov 09, 2007
I always pick up on the bathroom humor. hehe


hahaha. Yeah, so do I.

Well I may be pooped but I can't sleep. Medication adjustment always causes me several nights of lost sleep.

I need a MASSAGE!
on Nov 09, 2007
I'm pleased to hear your husband is home more now. Hope the adjustments are easy.

Sorry to hear about your Uncle. My wife's mother is in a similar mess and won't do anything to help herself. Makes me sad to see people waste themselves.

I like to think of life, earth, and the human race, like a giant tapestry. We each are our own little thread woven into the bigger picture. Usually we are so busy focusing on our own little strand or the ones around us, we miss the beauty of the weave.


There is a great book by Clive Barker called 'Weaveworld', which I think you would enjoy immensely.

I hope you're feeling better soon and enjoy your son's birthday.
on Nov 11, 2007

There is a great book by Clive Barker called 'Weaveworld', which I think you would enjoy immensely.

I hope you're feeling better soon and enjoy your son's birthday.

I like Clive Barker.  I listen to his books on audio when I work out sometime.  I haven't read Weaveworld...but will check it out.  Thanks.

The party was a success...and I am already feeling better...thanks for the well wishes.

Makes me sad to see people waste themselves.

I agree.  Life really is short, especially when I think about being half way done with it.....if I live the average life span of a US woman.

Hope we can hook up when i'm in Ohio!

Me too.  Unless something comes up here, right now it looks good.